A mind become too compliant, too ready to conform, too eager to please, is a danger to itself, to body, to whole being – to being whole.
There are perils in swimming against the tide of cultural, social, gender conditioning (especially for women). There are perils in swimming against the prevailing tide of thought. I know the perils of not swimming against the tide to be far greater.
Learn to swim. Learn to swim strong, steady strokes.